Not all those who wander…

When I was about eight, I watched Alice in Wonderland over and over again. I loved the chatty and catty flower garden. I memorized all the Cheshire Cat’s lines. I hated the ending. I didn’t want Alice to back to her old life. I hoped she would learn to navigate the ins and outs of Wonderland. Later, I read Through the Looking Glass and learned that Alice became a queen–the first in my reading of fairy tales because most girls became princesses. But she still went back, discovering the whole episode was a dream.

This morning, while searching my brain for a post topic, I thought about Alice and her adventures. And that led to other girls who attempt escapades and the outcomes.

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Firstly, they are never undertaken by choice. In the Wizard of Oz, Dorothy is conked on the head and awakens in Oz, all the time demanding to make it back home despite having wanted to run away with Toto before the tornado. Red Riding Hood was on an errand for her mother.

Secondly, the girls always want to return home. Dorothy and Alice takes on unimaginable risks because they want to go home. No matter how much danger they face and overcome, they still want to get back to the worlds they knew.

Lastly, and almost peripherally, they came from nice homes. These weren’t the Cinderellas or the Snow Whites, who were mistreated. Maybe that’s why they were in such a lather to get back home.

Of course the comparison is when boys from fairy tales leave home and go on adventures. They seek fame, fortune and tend to get both and much more. They never return home and really don’t want to return. Sometimes I’d watch Alice in Wonderland and wished she’d wandered a little longer.

Until today, I didn’t know who to attribute the “Not all those who wander are lost.” I’ve learned it came from J.R.R. Tolkien and The Fellowship of the Ring. It got me thinking about the need to wander, if only for a change of scene. So maybe the saying could be, “Not all those who wander need return.”


3 thoughts on “Not all those who wander…

  1. I’m glad I wasn’t the only one saddened when Alice headed home after having such a wonderful, if not dangerous at times, adventure in Wonderland. It does seem the lot for many ladies in stories to feel the need to pack up the fun and return to their “typical” lives.

    A sad testament to reality in some ways? Where even in this day and age, women are still expected to “tone down” their adventures and search for a husband in order to raise a family. It’s not as intense as it was, but it’s still there much more than it ever was for men.

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