I’ve been looking for a topic for some time now. After spending a week at Disney World, something occurred to me. Something I haven’t shared with you.

I have a confession to make.

Like Frieda from Peanuts I have naturally curly hair. We even have the same “birthday” although mine is many years removed. According to my internet research (and we all know how reliable that is!) she made her debut on March 6th, 1961. Twenty years later, this curly girl blogger was born. I always liked Frieda because she, unlike me, was proud of her naturally curly hair and mentioned it at every opportunity. I, on the other had, tend to do everything in my power to make my hair straight, or at least no more than wavy. I know I’m not alone, but this year I decided to take a bold step. I’ve gone curly.

Curly Frieda
Picture of Frieda from Peanuts, courtesy Rankopedia.com

To you straight-haired girls, this is hardly worth mentioning, but to those in the know it’s a revelation. But the revelation also comes with a catch. No curly-haired role models, or very few on hand. The field gets even thinner when you look at the representations of classic fairy tale characters. Our only lighthouse in the sea of hair is Merida from Disney Pixar’s Brave, whose hair was quickly smoothed out when she made her debut as a Disney princess. Even proud Frieda, with her bouncy locks, began to fade into obscurity in favor of helmet-haired Lucy and lanky-haired Marcie and Peppermint Patty.

When did we decided that our fairy-tale heroes and heroines couldn’t have naturally curly hair? After Snow White, it was quite a while before Disney even had a non-blonde princess, let alone a curly one. I watched the parades, princess meet & greets, and noticed a distinct lack of curls. Is it a silly thing to ask for corkscrews and fractals with a penchant for absorbing ambient moisture? I am officially adding curly girls to my hidden minority.

I suppose there are more important issues to soapbox about like honest equality, world peace, an myriad other pressing concerns.

I want world peace, and I think a great way to start is for me to make peace with my hair.

Me as a curly girl
Me trying to make peace with my curly hair

2 thoughts on “The Hidden Minority Part II

  1. I’ve often wondered why the media keep showing women with excessively straightened-out hair. But then I look around and notice that most curly-haired women I know choose to wear their hair straight. I really don’t know which trend is feeding into which – the media influencing the society, or the media simply portraying what it draws from the society. But I’d say, wrench the power back from the media.

    You look great with curly hair! I, for one, am certainly cheering for you to keep it natural.

    1. Thanks for the encouragement! And your point is a good one. I don’t know if life imitates art or vice versa. I know that plenty of people (myself included) try to achieve straight-haired perfection and summer in my area is the worst time to keep that going. I’d like to say that I’m going curly to make a statement, but really it’s a desire to simplify. Then again, most statements tend to start out as a need to make things easier, so here I go!

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